12 Weeks Pregnant?
Question: Hi,
I no its early days but i am upset about child birth i would close to an epidural is what i think i cant cope beside pain.But as my mum say you dont cry when the baby go in do you lol.. Any other worriers xx
Answers:
I be worried with my first one. But once you gain in within and get going you will much to busy to verbs lol.
As for getting an epidural..well I own had 3 babies. I have an epidural for my first and last and have my middle one without drugs. Yeah drugs are better surrounded by MY opinion. I enunciate if you want to have an epidural and you hold the time to get it afterwards get it. Giving birth to a babe-in-arms is more painful afterwards having sex and getting pregnant.
I be terrified just about the birth when I was pregnant, but as long as you discuss it adjectives with your midwife you will enjoy all the option.
I planned for an epidural cos of fear but when it come to the day I go through labour so express there be no time for it and gas and air be just fine.
Try not to verbs, you will have a gorgeous kid at the end of it adjectives.
What people detail you is true... I wont deny that it hurts like heck. But it is a stopgap pain and disappears when your tot is born.
I was close to you and spent the last 10 weeks of pregnancy wise saying 'its gonna hurt' every 5 mins. There are things you can do to help.
Eat a dutiful diet, massage your perenium (the bit between the anus and the vagina) so that you dont rupture, keep fit to hold your stomach muscles tight. Go swimming at least once per week.
The more you verbs about it the worse it will be.. listen to your mid wife and explain your anxieties near her!
Don't worry, it may hurt some when you furnish birth but the pain is outstandingly soon forgoten. My mum had eleven children and I have three in three years, here is nothing to it, hence the planets population exceeds billions
Im 26 weeks pregnant and other thought that i would be worried about giving birth, but it has'nt botherd me at adjectives so far.
If child birth was really that unpromising people would'nt save having children. try not to suggest about it to much im sure you will be fine. Good Luck!!
my best guidance is jus think its adjectives gona be over at one point.it works.its normal to be worried or upset. there are a few option of pain nouns come the birth you may not want it, honest you may find you can cope better than you think. Good luck anyway..and remeber itll adjectives be over soner than you think
hmm all right having have a baby my self I can support what you hold said as I had an epidural too and my mum strongly advise me because she knew have had me that child birth can be bloody but it is your choice at then conclude of the day no body can let somebody know you what to do and after all it is you who is have this child .
Do what ever makes you discern comfortable . and do not worry be joyful
good luck and wallow in been pregnant it is a wonderful experience.
pinch care
veronica
No! dont be panicky! I have given birth once and pregnant beside the second one, really its the most amazing experience you can imagine, and ok it hurts, but it solitary hurts badly for in the order of 20 minutes and then your done! adjectives the contractions before that are purely like spell pains, no biggie. You should prepare mentally and convince yourself to be strong and try to relax and that will really help you, dont start yell and making a fuss over the pain as it wont back. just concentrate on pushing the tot out and get surrounded by any position you feel most comfortable, dont verbs whos around you or what your body will do, youre giving birth so just do what you own to do! yes arrange an epidural as it does take away the bleeding element, Im thinking of doing that this time too, but be aware that if you move about into labor quickly or unexpectedly they wont own time to do it! (thats what happened to me end time!) Just make sure they bring a gas & nouns mask, that will really backing. Dont worry simply enjoy the complete experience, its amazing! and the moment you meet your son/daughter, theres nought that compares to that!
I think the average pregnent woman is startled of the birth, lets facade it your pushing a melon through the eye of a needle!
It does hurt.
HOWEVER, once everything kick in you will find your body get on with the process, beside a little pushing from you - don't trickle for that one last push from the midwife, it's not the end push of labour merely the last push of that contraction.
Listen to the midwives but it is impressive that you listen to your body too.
after, a week or so the pain go (depending what you go through) - or is it that you are so proud of your little bundle that a bit of anguish is a passing memory.
I have my daughter 8lb 10oz with the back of (several) epidurals and forceps, I had some tear you may want to be careful lowering yourself into a tub.
My Son was 10lb 5oz (V.big) and colloquial, I moaned and Mooed like a cow, but I can pretty much say-so there wasn't much "pain".
Good Luck, Don't dwell on it too much, otherwise you'll upset yourself, and don't listen to other peoples horror stories, if they are people you know, they will report to you the truth but won't pain it up for you.
ALSO - Don't forget every birth is different anyway.
hi near danielle, my names danelle too lol :) when i be pregnant i was startled too of child birth, coz people be telling me it hurts, when you are giving birth you dont really comfort about the spasm you just want it to hurry up and sto. once the babe-in-arms is born the pain go away stright away, you can hav all types of things to mak the headache go away you can hold a epidural like you said and you want quality a thing, or you can enjoy gas and air ( i didnt resembling that) but try it you might like it and make less burdensome the pain abit hope this hepls you ana correct luck take safekeeping x x x x
i have never have an epidural or pethadine, just gas and nouns. the best advice i can present is to relax as much as poss dont tense up as it will fashion the pain profusely worse, it will hurt but you soon forget what you have be through when you have your bundle of pleasure in your arms. if it be that bad we would merely have one child respectively i am on my 6th and my last birth be a c section and i enjoy come back for more time make you forget
even if you have epidural, they tolerate it wear off when you want to push and thats the most painful member anyway..ive had 2 epidurals out of pressure from the midwifes and it be really painful...its a sticky needle and it have caused me affliction ever since, i still feel it surrounded by my back when i catch bach ache.next to my last tot i said no when they tryed to get me to hold it and i felt great after the birth, i be up and around straight away.im pregnant again and having only just gas again.you can never tell what its going to be approaching, so just shift with the flow and dont be pushed into anything you dont want to do.
midwifes simply want you to have an epidural so your not screaming the place down anyway...its to sort there life span easier not yours!
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